Mormon Dating Made Easy?

So, I've come to realize how competitive the Business program here at BYU is and how competitive the business world is in general.  They have informed us that if you haven't had several internships that you will never get a good job.  So I decided to get an on-campus internship which they randomly place you in.  They put me on the "Mormon Dating Made Easy" project.  The lady who needs our help with her growing business and marketing ideas is a professional dating coach... She has informed that "I am a marriage and family therapist with 17 years of experience. I am also a dating coach. I have been on TV and radio nationwide and have been across the country speaking at LDS singles conferences, wards, and events. I have a dating-coach program complete with professional one-on-one coaching, books, workshops, teleseminars, cruises, and conventions." 


I find it quite hilarious that they put me on this project.  It's sort of like a slap in the face.  Maybe I need to learn something from her. Who knows..  Anyways, of all the financial based internships and real companies, I got stuck with mormon dating, what a party!

The small stuff

It's funny how we take the small things for granted and it isn't until we don't have it that we realize how important it is/was.

Not being able to use my right hand and not being able to really sit/stand has made me appreciate what I do have a little more fully.

Referring to life in general; we all don't realize how much the small things mean or how much of an impact they have on our lives.  It's the small things that add up to have the greatest effect.  A friend stopping by, a caring text, a smile from across the room, a mother that pushes aside everything to help you out, feelings or reassurance and peace from our Heavenly Father, seeing a long lost friend.  There are so many small things that happen in our lives that have a big impact, that help mold us into who we are.  It's hard to recognize that fact and be grateful for the small things.

I'm not so good at fully expressing my thoughts and feelings, and I may be on drugs, but you get the the gist of what I'm trying to say.  I'm grateful for the small stuff and the people that have had a huge influence on my life by small means.  Everyone I meet and talk to is a blessing in my life in one way or another..

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I sort of like people watching and conversations where you really get to know how people think and feel. There is so much to be learned from everyone around you.  Hearing others share insights helps me to better understand myself as well.  When people will open up and share their feelings you know you have a real friendship, not just a superficial relationship.  There is always more than what meets the eye.  I'm not always good at expressing myself, but I love to listen to others, I learn so much.  


I also love being active ad getting out and doing things.  Thanks to those who have invited me to do things and done things with me all summer, you have made my life joyful.


If anyone ever needs someone to chat with or has some insights, just let me know, you know how to contact me.  

Good Times..

Had some good times this week.  Relived some past memories with the guys.  Went biking and I'm excited about getting more into it.

Also had a guys temple trip, with chili's for dinner.  The temple is such a wonderful place, so peaceful and calming.  It is great having friends that build you up and help make you a better person.  Not many groups of friends could all go to the temple together or would want to.  Having the Gospel in my life is such a blessing.  That eternal perspective gives me purpose and drive from day to day.  I wish I could go back to the spiritual plane of my mission.  Gotta work day to day to get back there.  I never was happier than during those two years.  I can't believe I've been home a year already.  Time flies by as if it were a dream; and that is both good and bad.

Natalie, Gordy, & I walked to 7- eleven and got slurpees, brought back some good childhood memories. I love that our family is so close.  I don;t know many families that still spend a lot of time together into their early to late 20's.

Also got a call from the Marriott School of Management.  I guess there were some changes and now I am accepted!  Love it when things work out like that.  I constantly see how blessed I am and wonder why I deserve it.


Random picture of Nate planking near the top of Mount Olympus..

Well....

Didn't get accepted to the Business Program... I can keep trying and get in later, dont think that will be too big of a problem.  Or does this mean I should do something else?

What should I do with life?

Sometimes I get bored.  So I fix that with a crazy run or something like that.

Today I jogged/quick walked up Mt. Olympus.  Up in 1 hr 20 min up, not sure down.  8.13 miles.  4200 elevation gain.

Sometimes I push myself hard.  It's worth it afterwards.

For example, a few weeks ago I ran/hiked 12.5 miles, it was around 3 hours, and I didnt take any water.  After a blister on my heel was killing me and I felt like I might pass out I turned around, but that left me with 6 miles back to the car.

I don't always think ahead, but usually do.  Now I have a camelback, so that wont happen again.

Any ideas on what I should do next?

I've Learned..

I’ve learned-
 that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.

I’ve learned-
 that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back.

I’ve learned-
 that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.

I’ve learned-
 that no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I’ve learned-
 that it’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.

I’ve learned-
 that you should never ruin an apology with an excuse.

I’ve learned-
 that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you’d better know something.

I’ve learned-
 that you shouldn’t compare yourself to the best others can do.

I’ve learned-
 that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.

I’ve learned- 
that it’s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I’ve learned-
 that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I’ve learned-
 that you can keep going long after you can’t.

I’ve learned-
 that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I’ve learned-
 that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I’ve learned-
 that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.

I’ve learned-
 that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I’ve learned-
 that money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I’ve learned-
 that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

I’ve learned-
 that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you’re down will be the ones to help you get back up.

I’ve learned-
 that sometimes when I’m angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn’t give me the right to be cruel.

I’ve learned-
 that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

I’ve learned-
 that just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have.

I’ve learned- 
that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you’ve had and what you’ve learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.

I’ve learned-
 that you should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if they believed it.

I’ve learned-
 that your family won’t always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren’t related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren’t biological.

I’ve learned-
 that it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you are to learn to forgive yourself.

I’ve learned-
 that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn’t stop for your grief.

I’ve learned-
 that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I’ve learned-
 that a rich person is not the one who has the most, but is one who needs the least.

I’ve learned-
 that just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other. And just because they don’t argue, it doesn’t mean they do.

I’ve learned-
 that we don’t have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

I’ve learned-
 that you shouldn’t be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.

I’ve learned-
 that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

I’ve learned-
 that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt in the process.

I’ve learned-
 that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

I’ve learned-
 that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I’ve learned-
 that the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.

I’ve learned-
 that it’s hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people’s feelings, and standing up for what you believe.

I’ve learned-
 that people will forget what you said, and people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.

By Omer B. Washington

Some of my ideas...


(I'm not very good with words, but you get the idea)

I’ve learned – that God puts people in our lives at the right moment, for the right reason.

I’ve learned – that the most beautiful things aren’t man-made

I’ve learned – that life’s stresses can be relieved by nature.

I’ve learned – that we all have our insecurities and weaknesses, pointing out those of others doesn’t fix ours.

I’ve learned – that we realize who and what we care about most once its gone.

I’ve learned – that it’s the small and simple things that make life great.


I’ve learned – that what others think doesn't really matter as long as it feels right to you.


I’ve learned – to listen to and follow parents advice, they have experience and wisdom that will bless your life.


I’ve learned – that happiness comes from within.


I’ve learned – that fear stops progression, faith and courage speed it up.


I’ve learned – that I'm happiest when I forget myself and think of others.


I’ve learned – that sulking doesn't do anyone any good.


I’ve learned – that family relationships are a whole lot more important than any other relationship.


I’ve learned – to learn from and remember the past, but to focus on the here and now.  Live in the moment.


I’ve learned – that giving into human desires and appetites only weakens and brings pain, overcoming them builds character.


I’ve learned – that worldly accomplishments mean little compared to daily  personal accomplishments.


I’ve learned – that realizing out many blessings and what we have gives us perspective and erases feelings of self-pity.


I’ve learned – that men/women build up defenses, but once you break through and get to know them, you will see someone just like you and I.


I’ve learned – that sometimes the truth hurts, but lies always hurt.


I’ve learned – that your words, actions, and decisions affect more than just yourself.


I’ve learned – that there is a lot of good despite all the sleeze of the world.


I’ve learned – that everything happens for a reason, even if we can't see it right now.  There is a lesson to be learned.


I’ve learned – that time flies, make the most of every minute.


I’ve learned – that a little bit of change can make a world of a difference.


I’ve learned – that the Lord gives us enough to take the 1st step, then expects us to take the 2nd based on faith.


I’ve learned – that storms provide for new life.


I’ve learned – that happiness or sadness is a choice.


I’ve learned – that every morning we decide how our day will be.


I’ve learned – that attitude is everything.


I’ve learned – that love, true love, is what brings us together.